ALBANY, NY (NEWS10) – Today’s 98.3 TRY social dilemma came from Valerie and it’s all about what’s appropriate in marriage. Here is his email:
Hi Jaime. I argue with my husband and try to make him understand why it’s wrong. Please help. Here is what happened. My husband sent flowers to a co-worker. She had a hard time, her fiancé ended things four months before their wedding. My husband is nice and likes to make people happy, but that’s going too far. He shouldn’t buy other women flowers no matter the drama. He thinks I’m ridiculous, and last night he slept on the couch because he feels like I don’t trust him, it’s offensive. I will add that the only reason I know for this is that I found her thank you note hidden in her lunch box. Don’t you think that if you’re in a serious relationship, it’s inappropriate to send flowers to someone else? Please help me Thanks!
Well, I think it’s okay to be a good person. For me, I wouldn’t be mad if my sweetheart sent flowers to someone else in this kind of situation. I hope I don’t have to find out with a thank you note, but if you trust someone, you trust them. Period. That’s my point of view anyway.
What do you think? Let’s help Valerie out and let me know on TRY’s Facebook page.